OK, other than the shout out to Dora, we told our kids that we're adopting! I'm so happy that they know!
I really think it's good that B knows ahead of time. He's my child that needs processing time on things. He does better when he has time to wrap his head around things and I think now when we show him our new child's picture he'll be excited rather than processing then. He can do that now. Initially he had a lot of questions (good ones that we were happy to answer). Then we let him be for a bit (I guess Brian talked to him about it while I took E to a birthday party but then it was dropped for a bit). This evening he brought it up on his own asking about naming our child. He had a couple of suggestions (Fritz is one - we're reading Swiss Family Robinson right now - lol). It was fun to see him starting to get excited. Also, B is REALLY hoping it's a boy. We told him that we'll be happy either way with the child that God chooses to make a part of our family. He agreed readily and said he'd be happy either way. We did not tell him our child is likely to be a boy because on the very remote chance that we have a referral for a girl we don't want him to feel disappointed.
E is currently designing the nursery in her head, coming up with every single way she can help and be the second Mommy to our child. She is fully excited. No hesitations. Only a couple of questions. Overall just thrilled. She did state that she'd like a sister (she has a brother and thinks it would be fun to have both) but seems pretty ready to accept another brother too (afterall she LOVES the brother she has). Thankful for this since our child is likely to be a boy. ;)
That's the excitement here. I loved the idea of Big Brother/Big Sister shirts and wanted to do this, but I haven't ordered any yet and I didn't want to wait another week to tell them. I think I need to get on that so that when we actually have a referral and are ready to show the kids, we can give them their big sister/big brother shirts. Although I don't want them to wear the shirts too much b/c I want them clean and in good condition to wear to the airport! :) I think it actually worked out well to make this part a discussion and they'll be ready for a more creative celebration type of announcement when there's an actual picture of a child. Thanks for all of your support!!!
Congrats - how exciting!!
ReplyDeleteYay! I know they will make wonderful siblings for your baby! How fun your daughter is planning the nursery!
ReplyDeleteAwww...your kids are so wonderful! Glad telling them went so well.
ReplyDeleteSo glad you gave them the good news and that things went well! :)
ReplyDeleteYay! Glad they are excited! Sounds like they'll be wonderful big brother & sister. :)
ReplyDeleteyay! so glad it went well! do you think ella put two and two together about all the hanging out with korean boys? ;)
ReplyDeleteGlad it went well! Isn't awesome the names that kids come up with. My boys love to tell me to name our baby Beatrice..ha ha! I wonder what would happen If I really did...they would probably die laughing:)
ReplyDeleteI cannot imagine how excited they are :-)
ReplyDeleteCongrats! What wonderful news to share with your little ones! I'm sure that was an exciting time! :)
ReplyDeleteCongrats!! I'm sure they are thrilled :)
ReplyDeleteI was glad to hear of your kid's excitement upon hearing the news of a new sibling. I am sure you are relieved at their reaction and to have it out so you can share the rest of the journey openly with them.
ReplyDeleteAt some point you mentioned a book, I think, anyway we love the book A Mother for Choco. It is very sweet and simple. We have it at our library, but I think it is one that is worth owning!
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That is so exciting! I love that Ella is designing the nursery in her head - I do that all that time (with the nursery and any time we get a new assignment). I love the idea of the big brother/big sister t-shirts at the airport - what a great celebration it will be!
ReplyDeleteSo god to hear that they are excited!
ReplyDeleteOh, this one is making me cry! So happy that the kids are excited. What sweeties you have!
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